A Virtuous Woman...

Brian sent this to me today and I thought it was wonderful. Just wanted to share it =)

“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Proverbs 31:10

A woman of character is not easily found for she is rare and valuable. Her appealing attributes come as a gift from God. Thank Him often if you are blessed with this quality of woman in your life. She is rare because of her focus on others in a self-crazed culture. For the follower of Christ selflessness is expected, but for our society as a whole it is an anomaly. She refuses to demean herself to a standard of mediocrity, because her goal is excellence in living. Duplicity is far from her thinking as she serves with authenticity and industry. No skills or gifts remain dormant in her active life. She channels her energies into the welfare of her family and is resourceful with financial opportunities. A woman of character is an anchor for her family. Your character provides stability when challenges creep into your home. You are determined to do the right thing, regardless of the difficulties required. Character is more important than compromise, therefore you model the way for your friends and family. You are a rock of hope and consistency because God’s Word is that for you. However, be careful to not take the world on your shoulders. This is God’s job; so do not hold a standard of perfection over your head. Leave yourself some wiggle room for mistakes, because you will make mistakes. Let mistakes be a reminder of what to do, and not to do in the future. They are a reminder of your dependence on God. Your goal is not to live a mistake-free life, but a life that loves God and loves people. Let Him continue to develop your character and grow you into a mentor of other women. Don’t waste your wonderful experiences. Share them with younger women so they can grow in their character.Men love your wife of character. Tell her often how proud you are of her and do not be intimidated by her level of spirituality. On the contrary, celebrate her passion for life and her spiritual maturity. Allow her life to challenge you and inspire you to the same level of character development. Your virtuous woman is a tremendous asset. Your best and most strategic business decision is when you married a woman of character. She is uncanny in seeing things you do not see, and in saving you a ton of money and time. Her wisdom is ubiquitous in your work and home, so encourage her burgeoning success and opportunities. Become her biggest cheerleader. If she wants to start a business, help her start a business. If she needs some help with the house and lawn, make that investment. Free her to do what she does best. It may be teaching, mentoring, being a mom, sewing, or serving in a variety of capacities. It may be to take care of her parents during this season of life. Allow her to reach her full potential by giving her the cash, confidence, and resources to reach for her dreams. Be grateful for a woman of character is not to be taken for granted. Make a big deal out of her accomplishments, because they are a big deal. Help her to pace herself and protect her from the encroachment of those with warped motives. Her character is a valued asset so honor and cherish it well!